tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388041559282130930.post2253911035963824310..comments2023-03-24T07:39:52.213-06:00Comments on An Idiosyncratic Life: Help. . . .Heidihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09265027127478436907noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388041559282130930.post-76792736304670432752010-10-18T22:08:29.906-06:002010-10-18T22:08:29.906-06:00Thank you Ashley. :)Thank you Ashley. :)Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09265027127478436907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388041559282130930.post-58547109876231046072010-10-18T20:59:17.829-06:002010-10-18T20:59:17.829-06:00I'm a bit late reading this, but I had to put ...I'm a bit late reading this, but I had to put my two cents in. Men definitely need to feel like you need them. They need to feel useful and constructive. That being said, there is also a fine line between showing that you need him and him seeing you as desperate or incapable. Nate was recently gone for work for three weeks. When we would talk on the phone and I'd tell him I missed him, he would ask me why because I was taking care of everything just fine without him. He needed to be reminded that I needed his hand to hold and his smile to brighten my day. <br />The male ego is indeed very fragile. Keep your chin up and your eyes and heart open and I know the Lord will bring you and your soul mate together. =)The Barnum Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12242274852458364349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388041559282130930.post-90708144071825861182010-10-08T13:52:27.065-06:002010-10-08T13:52:27.065-06:00Done and DONE!Done and DONE!Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09265027127478436907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388041559282130930.post-19791867227764285062010-10-08T10:17:42.323-06:002010-10-08T10:17:42.323-06:00Hook me up! ;-)Hook me up! ;-)Larissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15144055102075531918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388041559282130930.post-64610686741602864672010-10-06T14:13:41.752-06:002010-10-06T14:13:41.752-06:00Thank you Larissa. So tell me are you still with t...Thank you Larissa. So tell me are you still with that blunt beau? Cuz if not, I so have a guy in mind for you. :)Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09265027127478436907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388041559282130930.post-31928181486877603732010-10-06T09:09:10.759-06:002010-10-06T09:09:10.759-06:00What a talented writer you are!
And I echo your se...What a talented writer you are!<br />And I echo your sentiment. I want everyone to know I am a strong, capable woman who can take care of myself. I had a friend in need who needed a place to live for four months and I offered up my spare room (paying rent of course) and somehow I feel I took a step back in responsibility just because I wasn't doing it "all on my own." I have convinced myself men will find it attractive that I am strong and independent. Then my last beau told me a few weeks ago, "Larissa, you are just SO independent. SO SO SO independent. I'm not saying that's bad, but I think you may find men have a hard time figuring out where to fit." Ouch. <br />I know our struggles and situations are very different, but I can relate somewhat.<br />I think you are wonderful and talented and quite the catch! I'll keep my eyes open for you;-)Larissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15144055102075531918noreply@blogger.com